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I Can't Help MyselfValerie Bailey
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CREDITS

Vocals: Valerie Bailey
Background Vocals: Barry Coffing and Valerie Bailey

Guitars: Steve Farris
Bass: Deon Estus
Drums: Herman Matthews
Drum Programming: Barry Coffing
Engineers: Bobby Ginsburg, Jon Stanka, and Barry Coffing
Produced by: Barry Coffing
Mixed by: Dale Penner
Recorded at: Glenwood Place Studios, Burbank, CA. USA
Mixed at: Hipposonic Studios, Vancouver, BC. Canada Mastered by: Ken Love, Five Points Mastering, Nashville, TN. USA

Photography: Ron Fontenot

Graphic Design: Megan Coffing
Hair: Gayla Belay

Makeup: Marc Havey

Clothes: Christopher John Rogers

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Yeah, Yeah, Come on
Here we go y'all, dig this baby

You don't care for me
I don't care about that
You got a new fool, ha!
I like it like that

I got only one burnin' desire
Let me stand next to your fire

(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand 
(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) Whoo

Listen here now, stop actin' so crazy

You say your momma ain't home, it ain't my concern
If you play with me, nah you won’t get burned

I have only one itchin' desire let me stand next to your fire

(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand baby

(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) Yeah, Yeah

 

Whoo, move over now, come on Stevie go on and take over

Show em how you do it, Play that thing, Yeah, Yeah Yeah

Listen, check it out, that’s what I am talkin about

Move over now

 

You try to give me your money, you better save it babe

Save it baby for a rainy day

I have only one itchin' desire, let me stand next to your fire,

 

(Let me stand next to your fire) I wanna stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) Let me stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) I wanna I wanna stand

(Let me stand next to your fire) Oh yeah, yeah, yeah

Baby let me stand, come on, take me higher, Hah, oh yeah, let me stand, whoo, come on, yeah

Written by: Jimi Hendrix

Fire lyrics ©Experience Hendrix, L.l.c.

FIRE

I CAN'T HELP MYSELF

I was thinking along the lines of a relationship where the goal is to stay celibate. I should not be getting too deep in the dude’s craziness. The song is saying I shouldn’t look in your eyes because I know you’re deal and you’re dangerous. Why do I even call when it’s only gonna take a push or slip before I fall? But as it happens sometimes, I can’t help myself. Yes, I’m lost and confused and what I’m doing is wrong, but perfectly wrong and it feels good in the moment. This is a real situation in the world of Hollywood, where guys are always wanting to get sexual even when they barely know you – and as a woman, I’m thinking, he won’t really need that. And yet it happens. 

The lyrics are like me saying, I know what I’m doing is so wrong but I’m doing it right. I shouldn’t be doing what I’m doing, but I’ve gotten entangled in his web and can’t help myself – even as I’m trying not to do it. It’s like trying to convince yourself you’re a little bit pregnant! That’s what happens when we live in the flesh. The guy’s not right for me but there’s this undeniable animal magnetism. The way “I Can’t Help Myself” came out, was like a female version of a Lenny Kravitz tune – like 90 percent 70’s vibe and 10 percent modern. The production is contemporary enough that you know it’s a not an old song despite its sentiment and power. When I performed it at the Memphis Springboard showcase, I’m happy to say the crowd went crazy. 

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